Today, we live in a world where influence is measured by what people say, what they wear, where they vacation and dine, and what they drive. There ws a time when the influencers were people who actually accomplished good. People like Martin Luther King, Jr. who was key in birthing the non-violent civil right movement, Nelson Mandela, an anti-apartheid revolutionary, who served as the first black president of South America, or Steve Jobs who turned Apple into a household name.
Take Mr. Beast, for instance. Perhaps his name is unfamiliar to you. James Stephen “Jimmy” Donaldson has 410 million YouTube subscribers, 115 million followers on TikTok, and 75 million loyalists on Instagram. Jimmy made a name for himself by funding extravagant giveaways and charity projects. He generates north of $6 million monthly. However, before we start finger-wagging, please note that all revenue goes to charitable causes.
But here’s the catch: digital platforms reward visibility, not necessarily character. The louder the voice, and sometimes, the more ranting, the bigger the platform. But not all influence is created equal. There’s a type of influence that doesn’t trend — but it transforms. It doesn’t make headlines — but it changes lives. And that influence flows from humility.
Jesus wasn’t concerned with the number of His followers. He changed the lives of those around Him by — washing feet, embracing the unwanted, and loving His enemies. He didn’t aspire to be a serving influencer; He just served.
If you’re a man today — working, leading, parenting, serving — you’re called to a different kind of influence for your family. A man of character, a legacy builder devoted to constructing a Christ-like foundation that will outlast your presence for many years to come.
Scripture
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
— Philippians 2:3 (NIV)
“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant…”
— Matthew 20:26 (NIV)
Jesus redefined greatness. He didn’t climb to power — He stepped down to serve. That’s the kind of influence that lasts beyond a platform. It’s a legacy no-brainer for men.
Today’s Challenge: How Will You be an Influence?
Us dads can influence our kids by being available, listening, and not judging. Influence those at work by being a part of the solution, not the problem. Influence your friends by showing up unasked, when they need help.
This week let’s make humility the new influence.
1. Scroll with Discernment.
Don’t measure your worth against curated reels. Instead, ask: Am I comparing myself to what others have?
2. Serve Instead of Self-Promote.
You may not have 100K followers, but you have brothers in Christ, neighbors, coworkers, a spouse, and a child. Invest where it matters most — real life.
3. Let Your Life Speak Louder Than Your Feed.
The fruit of your life — your patience, your integrity, your consistency — will speak volumes even if you never post it.
4. Follow Humble Influencers.
Seek voices who prioritize God’s wisdom over clicks, truth over popularity, and Christ over ego.
Remember, real influence is mostly unseen. More quiet than loud. Use Christ’s influence to change lives. Use humility as your new social platform to reach other men.
Final Thought
Men, the world doesn’t need more influencers — it needs more men of godly character. Your humility may not trend, but it will transform.
Let’s stop chasing likes and start building lives. Let’s model leadership that’s not about the leader, but about Christ, not about fame, but about faithfulness.
This week’s step: Choose one way to serve someone — without posting about it. Lead from humility. And let Jesus shine through your quiet service.
