“Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.” — Proverbs 16:32 How many times have you felt your anger surge when someone cuts in front of you on your way to work? You hit the brakes, tension rises, adrenaline spikes, and the expletives follow: “Jerk.” “What are you thinking?” “Seriously?”...
“Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” — James 1:19-20 Epictetus (c. 50–135 AD) is credited with saying, “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” James 1:19–20 speaks to something most men don’t like to admit—we are often more reactive than we realize. We...
“Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.” — Colossians 2:6–7 Striving is often seen as dedication. Men are praised for it, and ministries are fueled by it. It’s expected. But beneath the surface, striving reveals insecurity more...
“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” — Ephesians 2:8–9 Performance-driven faith is one of the most exhausting trails a man can walk. Your faith looks strong from a distance—disciplined, active, committed—but underneath runs a quiet fear: If I...
“For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” — Romans 8:15 Most men first encounter discipleship through doing something: serving on a team, leading a group, teaching a class, or organizing an event. So, in their minds, discipleship becomes another lane of...
“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1 Between 50% and 70% of men carry some unmet emotional need related to paternal approval into adulthood. Guys just want to hear their dad say, “I’m proud of you.” This void contributes to their perception of who their Heavenly Father is. Many men spend years seeking approval...
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 Most men are taught to measure themselves by movement—what they build, fix, lead, or produce. Performance becomes identity. But Scripture pulls us aside before the trail even begins. “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.” That means...
“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9 As another year begins, how many of us men plant a resolution flag for fitness, head to the gym on Monday, and expect to see results by the weekend? We live in a world of instant gratification, and we expect results. We don’t call people; we text. We don’t read the...
“For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.” — Hebrews 12:11 Most men know that one man they admire—the one who leads by serving, listens before speaking, and offers grounded wisdom when it matters. We respect that maturity and spiritual depth, but few want the process...
“He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.” — Philippians 1:6 Colorado is home to 58 named mountain peaks that rise above 14,000 feet, commonly referred to as “fourteeners“. Our family has climbed several during our time in the state. As you ascend each peak, the summit always looks closer than it really is. You reach that...